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My Loved One Is Gay! Joy, or Horror?

by John Smid | May 15, 2015 | John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Parents, LGBTQ Related Content, Uncategorized

The Joy and the Horror Families with LGBT Members, A while back, I got this phone call. “John, I never thought I’d be calling you about this, we just found out that my brother is gay. My whole family is devastated.” At the time, I believed someone being gay was a...

Letter from a 45 year old virgin

by John Smid | Jan 13, 2015 | John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

I received a personal letter from a man in his middle forties. He described that he was recently coming out to himself and a few others. He grew up in a strongly legalistic church background. He said his church considered Liberty University and Jerry Fallwell, its...

I’d really like to hear………..

by John Smid | Oct 20, 2014 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

“Being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view to a viewing point – a higher, a more expansive place, from which you can see both sides.” Thomas Crum As I read all of the posts about gay marriage, Christianity, homosexuality, ExGay...

I Stand With Others to Oppose Sexual Conversion Therapy

by John Smid | Jul 31, 2014 | ExExGay - Conversion Therapy, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content, Love In Action, Uncategorized

I was involved in Love In Action for twenty-two years and served on the board for Exodus International for eleven of those years. I entered the ministry with the hope that as self proclaimed experts in their field, they could help me to eradicate homosexuality from my...

LGBTQ people and the Word “Change”

by John Smid | Jul 10, 2014 | ExExGay - Conversion Therapy, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

I saw a link to an interview with Jackie Hill, a professed Ex-Lesbian. It’s titled “Ex-lesbian Spoken Word Poet Slams Macklemore’s Anthem ‘Same Love’ for Claiming Gays Can’t Change.” I was quite disturbed because of the message of eternal damnation...

Does the Church have Multiple Personality Disorder?

by John Smid | Apr 28, 2013 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

This last week was an internet frenzy of thoughts and opinions. I the wake of John Paulks apology for harm through his involvement in the ExGay movement I saw the reality of what we call the Christian Faith. The reality being, the Christian faith is like a person with...
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