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John, are you a Christian?

by John Smid | Oct 4, 2026 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog, MyLifeStory

Someone recently asked me: “John, are you a Christian? If you were to die tonight, do you know where you would go?” I quickly responded, to not cause any conflict, “Oh yes. I’m good with that.” The person was a very young person with a bold zeal in their personality,...

John, where is God in your life today?

by John Smid | Dec 21, 2023 | Church and Religion, J and L Blog, MyLifeReconcile, Uncategorized

After many years of an internal process of changes in my spiritual development I found a statement that caused me to do some thinking. I was actually encouraged as I evaluated this question: “John, you haven’t included enough about God in your writings and...

Two People, Painful Past Connection; Come Together and Talk

by John Smid | May 3, 2022 | Church and Religion, ExExGay - Conversion Therapy, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

In 2017, Garrard Conley wrote a memoire, “Boy Erased”, about his life and his experience with Love In Action, a residential recovery program purporting to help homosexuals leave homosexuality. The program Director at the time was me, John Smid.  ...
40 Years Of Shame and Guilt

40 Years Of Shame and Guilt

by John Smid | Mar 23, 2020 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

I was walking on the track with a friend today. He asked about how I was in some general terms then he said, “John, so how are things with Grace Rivers?” I was quickly drawn to a conversation I had just yesterday with a man who had contacted us after he...

Experiencing Church Culture – We’re all different.

by John Smid | Feb 25, 2019 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog

I attended a church service last night at a new church plant near where we live. I sat in the front row, because that is where the only seats were available. I haven’t been to a church other than the one we attend weekly in a very long time. They were setting up the...

Unhealthy Church Counseling

by John Smid | Feb 20, 2019 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog

  Religious counseling through pastors/church counselors seems to always find a way to hide from legal ethics. There is an entitlement to freedom that lives within it. I’ve heard many pastoral counselors say things like, “We submit to a higher authority and we...
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