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Cover Up All the Right Places

by John Smid | Jun 8, 2016 | Church and Religion, John's Current Blog

I come from many years of legalism and strong boundaries that I thought could keep people from harming themselves or others. Boundaries that were intended for safety very often created prisons. I didn’t know, I couldn’t see it for what it was. I look back and can see...

Gender and Sexual Diversity In Creation

by John Smid | May 31, 2016 | ExExGay - Conversion Therapy, John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

We love red, or blue. We love a good steak, or hate brussels sprouts. Some like it hot, others cold. Some are tall, others short. Blonde hair, or black? Why would we ever believe that our sexuality or our gender is more black and white than anything else? We are far...

Men, Women, and Bathrooms

by John Smid | May 19, 2016 | John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

I am very passionate about the subject I’m about to approach. I’ve often felt insecure voicing my opinions but underneath it all, I’m following my own beliefs more today and feel at peace with the integrity that this brings to my life. I’ve...

Mother’s Day and the LBGTQ Community

by John Smid | May 9, 2016 | John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Parents, LGBTQ Related Content

Yesterday was Mother’s Day. I have many, many friends who are LGBTQ. As I read through FaceBook I was rapt with the diversity of comments, celebrations, joy, and sadness sent back and forth between children and their mothers. Having been involved in ExGay ministry for...

A Very Difficult Discussion

by John Smid | Apr 7, 2016 | John's Current Blog, LGBTQ Related Content

With all of the news and media messages reacting to North Carolina and Mississippi’s attempt to construct ways of dealing with diverse sexuality, I’m struck with something as I ponder all of this. I’m rapt with an intense reality of how hard it is for us to be...
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